Tuesday, 22 March 2011

My Stalker

Hey babe, just want to wish u happy day for tomorrow x all the best and have a great day and I love u xxBillyxx

My #23 msg received from this Billy guy. Apparently I am in a relationship and I don't even know it yet. I get message saying goodmorning, have a nice day, I miss you, I love you.. and lately I have threatening messages of the form "I will see you later on..blablabla"

At first i though it was a prank! Exactly, like in high-school when we used to call up our friend's boyfriend-wannabes to check where they were, what they were doing. I know, you may thing that's a bit lame.. but hey, there was no Facebook then to stalk them up and I admit it, It was a bit fun.. somehow.. At least it was a teenage-cultural-thing to do: Innocent and sweet.

What is the problem with this world? It is not just my stalker, even the people I get to meet they are all weird. They prefer to socialise online. I can picture it right now.. Instead of dating someone.. you will end up dating his Facebook profile.. And cheatings will be of the form if someone dates your twitter profile. You could spend hours and hours tweeting and retweeting your sorrow and spreading the word to the world.. maybe this is why no one is the relationship type anymore.

And communication? Well, I lately seem to get serious messages in my Facebook inbox. In fact, I have received one today from my lovely flatmate, who apparently was waiting for the time to leave the flat to facebook me this really looooooooong message about flatmate issues!

I do it also sometimes.. I miss my friends and family so much but I feel that I do not have the time to communicate with them as much as I want to. I have been communicating with my mother through emails, I ask my friends news via facebook.. I mean I can just take the next plane and go visit.. I should go visit actually! Why not? Why can't I just find time to dedicate it to my friends.. and to me.. and even now, I'm dedicating time to blogger.com.. Well, that is because I have nothing else to do really and I always like typing my random thoughts.. it makes me sometime realise that they even more random that I thought.. Maybe I'm a stalker too.. stalking at my life through social media..

Nah! Definitely not a stalker! I love cooking and skyping at the same time at my friends to talk about my news; i check gym's schedule on my mobile device before hitting the gym; i choose to attend events on Facebook and call up my friend's to check if they are heating to the tube so I can start heating towards there too.. I don't stalk my life, I live my life..


And I believe that you, Mr.Stalker, if you are reading this blog right now you should be doing the same.. Additionally, I want to tell you that I do not love you, I do not even want to consider going out with you...unless.. unless you play squash!!! Yes exactly.. I need to train for my first squash game this weekend and could use some practise, anyway you are buying the court so don't feel bad if you are a bit rusty on the sport! I'm just giving you a chance here.. think about it!



2 comments:

Paola said...

IT SEEMS THAT YOU APPRECIATE MORE PERSONAL SOCIALIZING RATHER TRHAT SOCIALIZING IN FACEBOOK.FACEBOOK OR TWITTER SOCIALIZING IS A FORM OF COMMUNICATING BUT ACTUALLY IS WITHOUT ACTUAL FEELING.BEING OUT WITH FRIENDS MEANS HEARING THEM,RECOGNISING WHEN THEY ARE SAD OR HAPPY.ACTUALLY BEING NEAR PEAPLE YOU MAKE BETTER USE OF ALL YOUR SENSES.THAT IS LIFE ALL ABOUT.REMEMBER THE MEANING OF CHEERING UP BY KNOCKING THE GLASSES.THE SENSE OF HEARING FULFILLING LIFE............

AlithoVittoria said...

You are so right. Now, our path is the anti-socializing. The only socialization is the fake one which is through the displays of technology. We are not living in a reality anymore and that's disappointing for relationships and communities.

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